If she’s always leaning towards you, touching you, and laughing at your jokes—this is a clear sign she wants to be your girlfriend. She also might stop spending time with her friends and make plans that only involve you two.
She has also probably deleted all of her dating apps and stopped going on dates with other guys.
1. She’s spending a lot of time with you
If she’s willing to give up her time and spend more than just a few nights with you, it’s a big sign that she wants a serious relationship. She probably wouldn’t do this for someone she sees as a one-time hookup.
She also might want you to meet her friends and family. Girls don’t let just anyone meet their friends and family, so if she makes an effort to include you in her social circle it’s an indication that she wants a serious relationship.
Other signs she wants to be your girlfriend include her body language. She may lean in when you talk or play with her hair. She also remembers the little things you tell her. She treasures the information that you’re sharing with her, so she makes an effort to remember even the most insignificant details.
2. She’s flirting with you
If she can’t stop looking at you or finds ways to touch your arm or shoulder, this is a clear sign that she is flirting with you. She may even try to steal you away from her friends under the pretext of getting a drink or hitting the dance floor.
Laughing at your jokes or blushing when you compliment her are also flirting signs. She may even start calling you a nickname that only she uses with you. This is her way of showing you that she’s into you.
She may touch her lips or play with her hair as she talks to you, too. She may also twirl her finger in the air or reach out to touch your hand when she’s talking to you.
3. She’s comparing you to her boyfriend
When she mentions her boyfriend, and then starts talking about how much more feminine you are or how you are more interesting than him, she is letting you know that she is interested in you. She wants to be your girlfriend and she is trying to show you that.
It’s a good idea to take a step back if she is constantly comparing you to her ex. It may seem like she is trying to let you down easy by claiming that her ex is better than you but this is usually a sign of insecurity. She is worried that she might lose you if she is seen as a potential competition to her ex so she is using this excuse to cover it up.
4. She’s avoiding you
If she wants to take things further with you, she will avoid anyone else that may be competing for her attention. This could be because she doesn’t want to be seen as a player or because she is afraid of getting hurt, but it can also mean that she needs time to make a decision and doesn’t want to rush it.
She might talk about her long-term future plans with you or joke around about being a couple. Her body language will also show her interest in you, such as leaning into you during conversations and touching your face or hair.
She may even cancel her plans with her friends to spend extra time with you. That’s a big sign that she really likes you and wants to make you a major part of her life.
5. She’s opening up to you
If she is constantly thinking about you, talking to you about you or even telling her friends about you then this is a good sign. She is opening up to you because she sees you as a potential boyfriend and she wants this to be serious.
If you notice her deleting her dating apps, not meeting up with other guys or only going on dates with you then this is a huge sign that she’s open to a committed relationship. She might be a bit nervous about it but she’s taking steps to prove to you that she’s ready.
Also if she invites you to hang out one-on-one without anyone else or drops crazy hints about traveling with you or even your kids this is also a huge sign.