When it comes to sex, older guys take a more thoughtful approach. They see your worth beyond your body and sex.
They also respect your space. While younger men can suffocate you with their constant texts and calls, an older guy will make sure you have some personal time to yourself.
1. He’s mature
There’s something about that mature look of an older guy that makes young women drool. It could be the nonchalance, the serious expression. Or it might be the fact that these men have passed their wild phase and are ready to settle down.
These silver foxes are mature and they know how to treat a woman right. They won’t play mind games or send mixed signals. They will let you know that they like you and they will act on their feelings. And they will respect your boundaries.
3. He’s funny
Forget chiselled good looks and high-brow intellect, women are wired to fall for men who can make them laugh. And that doesn’t just mean slapstick toilet humor or knock-knock jokes. It’s about being creative, seeing connections and timing. Funny guys tend to have a better perspective on life and are less likely to sweat the small stuff.
If you find a guy who makes you laugh, feed off of it! Play along with his jokes, and if you’re feeling it, do a little impression (Sean Connery works well) to keep the laughs going.
4. He’s experienced
Many women love dating older men because of their experience. They have been through the whole dating thing before, and they know what it takes to make a relationship work. They don’t have the “YOLO” mentality and they know how to handle conflict. They also know that sex isn’t everything.
They’ve read interesting books, traveled the world, chilled with monks in Tibet, slept with multiple women and maybe even fought in a few wars. Their rich life experiences give them the confidence to be the provider that they want to be.
5. He’s confident
Older men have a lot of confidence under their belts. They know what they want in life and how to get it, so they don’t shy away from telling you exactly what they want from a relationship.
They also know that if they can’t have a certain thing, it’s okay to be happy with what they have. This makes them more understanding of your needs.
He doesn’t look at you to stroke his ego. He looks at you because he wants to make you happy. He loves your body and he loves the way you laugh.
6. He’s honest
Men of an older age are usually honest with their goals and dreams. They don’t hide their ambitions from the people they love, and they want you to know what’s important to them. They don’t date for the sake of it and won’t leave you to be someone else’s gold digger.
They aren’t as obsessed with the body as younger guys; they see your worth beyond your curves and cleavage. They appreciate your humor, intellect, values, and personality as a whole. They will never treat you like a child because they have the experience to know when it’s not right.
7. He’s romantic
Older men know how to be romantic. They’ll give you space, but he’ll also show you how much he cares by giving you little surprises, such as a hand-written note or a thoughtful gift.
He’ll also treat you like a queen, giving you his undivided attention when you’re on a date. He’ll even take you to a rustic hole-in-the-wall restaurant with a quartet playing in the background.
He’ll want to introduce you to his family and friends, because he wants you to be part of his life. This is a refreshing change from younger guys who are all about hooking up.
