If you’re a lesbian, kissing is something you probably have fantasies about. But it can be hard to know how to go about it.
One of South Africa’s longest-running soaps recently made history by showing its first lesbian kiss. The episode features Amanda and Jasmine kissing after she opens up about her pregnancy loss.
1. Ask her if she’s kissed before.
The most romantic moment in any relationship is the first kiss, but this moment can also be one of the most awkward. Whether you’re a man or a woman, it can be hard to figure out when is the best time to kiss your date.
Fortunately, there are some simple things you can do to determine if your date is ready for a romantic smooch.
Start by asking her if she’s kissed before, especially during a date when she’s showing signs of wanting to move forward with you. She might say, “Yes,” or she might shake her head and gently deflect your question.
2. Invite her over for a sleepover.
Inviting your six-year-old son to have his best friend sleepover can be a no-brainer, but it’s also a little awkward. If you’ve only known this girl for a few years and she isn’t your child’s cousin, or her best friend’s daughter, then it may not be the best idea to try kissing her first time.
That’s why it’s important to make sure that she’s comfortable with you being LGBT and has given her consent. If she isn’t, then you should probably let this opportunity pass and move on.
3. Go for a walk in the evening.
Taking an evening walk is one of the best things you can do to get your body in shape. It will improve your health, boost your energy level and help you sleep better.
The evening air is typically cleaner than in the morning, as most people have already had a day out and the pollution levels are at their lowest. This also means that your cardiorespiratory system is more likely to work at a higher pace, and you will have a greater supply of oxygen-rich blood to your organs.
Moreover, going for a walk after dinner will aid in your digestion and ensure that your food is properly digested before you go to bed. This will help you avoid bloating and feel comfortable while sleeping.
4. Make it romantic.
There are many sexy, romantic ways to kiss a girl. But when it comes to your first kiss, you want to make sure it’s a kiss she’ll remember for a long time to come.
The best way to do this is to keep it light and fun, while at the same time making her feel special. Keeping her mind engaged and her body in the right mood will help you to create one of the most memorable kisses of your life.
The key to this is to know her and understand her needs. This means paying attention to her preferences, and asking her about her interests and experiences. This will be a great way to gauge her true personality and determine if you can build a strong relationship together.
5. Make it count.
It’s hard to think of a first kiss as anything other than an exciting, romantic moment. You’ve fantasised about it in your head a million times, and you can’t wait to have it with the girl you love.
It could be a long, intense kiss or it might be short and sweet, but make sure you do something special to mark this moment in time. It’s important that you both have fond memories of this moment.
It’s also a good idea to make it clear that you have her consent before you touch or kiss her. That way, she knows it’s OK and doesn’t feel awkward about you touching her. It’s also a good idea to tell her when you want to stop. Depending on the situation, it may help her decide whether or not she wants to keep going.
